How to Find a Pen Pal

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Writing handwritten letters is a lovely experience. It's an excuse to use fantastic stationary, wax seals, and any other wonderful things that don't have any other practical use (ahem, glitter stickers). Plus, slowed down communication can be much more meaningful than instant Facebook updates. But finding pen pals can be difficult if you don't know where to look. The best pen pals are often not strangers, but people you didn't know loved letters too. I keep quite a few letter writing buddies, so here's my take on how to find them:

Check out your family tree

One of my most exciting pen pals is from Ireland. I found her by talking to my grandparents about which parts of the family emigrated to the United States and which stayed in Ireland. So if your family has immigrated in the past two or three generations, it's very possible that someone older than you knows a relative that lives in a different country. It's pretty exciting, and letters make good mementos of the relationship you created with someone you otherwise would not have met.

Call your grandmother

Or your great-aunt. Or anybody who is a bit older than you who you wish you managed to call more often. I find that a lot of older family members of mine are really grateful when you keep in contact, and letters are great because I know a lot of people really are nostalgic for that kind of communication, and it allows more in depth conversation. Letter writing can be done at a time that is convenient for both parties, so there is no time related stress.

Remember sleep away camp?

Any experience you had as a child that was a bit of a one off (sleep away camp, religious conferences, etc) probably involved some friends you made and didn't keep in touch with. If you can manage to find their address, send them a letter! They would probably love to hear from you. It's a great way to expand your circle of active friends and a bit of fun for both parties.

Sometimes, pen pals (or any sort of pal) are already friends or family, you just didn't know they were there.

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